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Dear Abby: Gay couple struggles with estranged mom

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

Dear Abby: I’m a gay man. My husband and I have been together almost nine years, married less than one. Seven years ago, my mother-in-law decided I was no longer “allowed” to speak to her or her family. When my husband asked her why, she was unable to give him a clear answer but insists it has nothing to do with us being gay. Anytime my husband mentions my name or the life we have together, she changes the subject. I offered to write her a letter, but my husband doesn’t think it would be a good idea. He used to be close to his family, but with each passing year the relationship becomes more strained.My mother-in-law followed a similar pattern when my brother-in-law married his wife. When they had their first child, my MIL’s behavior did a 180 and she welcomed them into the family. Now that we’re married, my husband and I have begun the process of adopting from the foster care system. I assume my in-laws will want a relationship with their grandchi...

Local organization fights back against City of San Diego housing plan with lawsuit

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

SAN DIEGO - A local organization is fighting back against a housing plan passed by the San Diego City Council last month. That ordinance would add more housing within a mile of transit stations. “It spreads density around, it’s not a responsible approach to urban planning," said Tom Mullaney with Livable San Diego, who is spearheading the newly filed lawsuit against the City of San Diego. He claims the city is pursuing high density housing without proper planning. “When I say it's adding density everywhere, it’s really adding density everywhere," Mullaney shared. The challenge comes after council's five to four vote of an ordinance back in February of "Sustainable Development Areas," otherwise known as "SDA's." It allows for multi-unit construction up to one mile from transits, instead of half a mile. Mullaney worries the move could have adverse consequences.“This is going to result in fewer people using mass transit because the developers would build farther away. They will build ...

Fire at garment factory in Pakistan kills 4 firefighters

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

KARACHI, Pakistan (AP) — Four firefighters died and nearly a dozen others were injured after a massive fire broke out in a garment factory in the southern Pakistan port city of Karachi, rescue officials and police said Thursday.The cause of the blaze, which ripped through the factory Wednesday night and eventually caused it to collapse, was not immediately known, police said. Earlier, heavy gray smoke suddenly rose from the factory. Firefighters had almost extinguished the blaze when the collapse occurred.Rescuers have retrieved the bodies of the firefighters from the rubble of the factory.Several firefighting vehicles were dispatched to the scene in an industrial area of the city, where many factories are located, officials said. Officers were also assessing the impact of the fire at an adjacent building.Karachi is the capital of southern Sindh province, where such incidents are common. In August 2021, at least 10 people were killed in a massive fire at a chemical factory in Karach...

North Korea fires ICBM that may have been new type of weapon

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

SEOUL, South Korea (AP) — North Korea on Thursday conducted its first intercontinental ballistic missile launch in a month, possibly testing a new type of more mobile, harder-to-detect weapons system, its neighbors said, in an extension of the North’s provocative run of missile tests. The launch prompted Japan to issue an evacuation order on a northern island, and though it was later retracted, it shows the vigilance of North Korea’s neighbors over its evolving missile threats.South Korea’s Joint Chiefs of Staffs said the missile launched on a high angle from near the North Korean capital of Pyongyang fell in the waters between the Korean Peninsula and Japan following a 1,000 kilometer (620 miles) flight. The Joint Chiefs of Staff described the missile as having a medium or longer range. The U.S. National Security Council called it a long-range missile and Japan’s defense minister an ICBM-class weapon. South Korea’s military believes North Korea launched a new type...

Category 4 Cyclone Ilsa lashes northwest Australian coast

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

CANBERRA, Australia (AP) — A severe tropical cyclone lashed the northwest Australian coast with strengthening winds and increasing rain Thursday as authorities warned the population to prepare for destructive gusts of up to 275 kph (170 mph). Cyclones are common along the sparsely populated Pilbara coast and fatalities are rare, but authorities fear that Ilsa’s extraordinary wind speeds could take some in its path by surprise.Cyclone Ilsa reached Category 4 intensity Thursday over the Indian Ocean and is expected to be the first storm on that scale to cross the Pilbara coast of Western Australia state in a decade, Australia’s Bureau of Meteorology said.Category 4 cyclones have maximum mean wind speeds of 160-199 kph (99-124 mph) with wind gusts of 225-279 kph (140-173 mph). They are the second-most severe storm on the Australian scale of five.Ilsa is expected to cross the coast somewhere in a 450-km (280-mile) span between the iron ore export town of Port Hedland and the Indigenous ...

Denver mayoral candidates discuss what sets them apart

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

The results of the April 4 municipal election aren’t certified yet, but the runoff race for the Denver mayor’s office between Kelly Brough and Mike Johnston marched forward Wednesday with a forum where the two candidates agreed with each other plenty but also sought to create some separation.Brough and Johnston met on the University of Denver campus for the event, which was hosted by the Denver Metro Chamber of Commerce, Downtown Denver Partnership and the city’s visitors and tourism bureau, Visit Denver.None of the 16 people who ran for Denver mayor earned more than 50% of the vote in the first round of voting. That triggered an instant runoff between the top two vote-getters, Johnston with 24.4% and Brough with 20%, according to unofficial results. The two are seeking to persuade most of the city’s electorate to vote for them in a race that will conclude June 6 and name the city’s first new mayor in more than a decade.Brough appeared to be comfortable...

Crews rescue seriously injured paraglider in Riverside County

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

Crews are rescuing a downed paraglider with serious injuries in Riverside County on Wednesday night.Firefighters responded to an area north of Soboba Road in unincorporated San Jacinto around 7:02 p.m.The paraglider was trapped in an inaccessible area that required remote rescue equipment and additional resources, according to CAL FIRE/Riverside County Fire Department.The paraglider was found about 4,000 feet up on a hillside among heavy brush, officials said.Firefighters are carrying the injured person down the hill with an estimated journey time of four hours, authorities said.A map of the approximate crash location shows the hillside is near Mt. San Jacinto College and Soboba Casino Resort.Map showing the location of a paraglider crash in San Jacinto on April 12, 2023. (CAL FIRE/Riverside County Fire Department)It’s unclear what initially caused the paraglider to crash. The exact nature of the injuries sustained was not immediately known.This developing story will be updated.

Man found stabbed to death in Long Beach, suspect at large

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

Police are searching for a suspect after a man was found stabbed to death in Long Beach on Wednesday.Officers responded to reports of a stabbing on the 100 block of East 1st Street around 3:38 p.m., according to Long Beach Police.When authorities arrived, they found an adult male victim “suffering from apparent stab wounds to the body.”A male suspect fled the scene before police arrived, officials said.The victim was transported to a local hospital where he later died from his injuries, police confirm.No suspect description was available and the victim’s identity has not been released.The deadly incident remains under investigation.

SF Giants implode in 6th inning, drop series to Dodgers

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

SAN FRANCISCO — The Giants did not literally fall apart Wednesday, though with injuries to Michael Conforto and Bryce Johnson it might have felt like it, but things started to metaphorically crumble in the sixth inning of their rubber match against the Dodgers.A tied game when Taylor Rogers took over at the start of the sixth, the inning began with four straight free passes, including one on a pitch-clock violation and another on the losing end of a 15-pitch battle, and ended with the Giants in a five-run hole after a big shot by — who else? — Max Muncy, the Giant killer who homered two more times and has done so against San Francisco more times than any other player in the majors since 2018.The Giants lost, 10-5. They dropped two of three to the Dodgers, who won’t visit Oracle Park again until the last home stand of the season. By then, who knows if the Giants will still be in contention, but they have to hope, at least, that it won’t be as dreadful as their first set o...

Amador Valley baseball: From six wins last year to serious contenders

Published Fri, 21 Feb 2025 10:42:01 GMT

DUBLIN — They’ve been two of the Bay Area’s hottest and most surprising baseball teams this spring, with three losses between them entering their game Wednesday.Dublin was coming off a win on Tuesday over reigning North Coast Section Division I champion De La Salle, which had beaten the Gaels five consecutive times dating to 2017.Amador Valley had risen to No. 2 in the latest Bay Area News Group rankings, a stunning turnaround given that the Pleasanton school won just six games last year.Adding to the pregame storyline was Amador Valley pitcher Oliver de la Torre, a Cal-bound senior who missed last season while recovering from Tommy John surgery.His presence this season is a big reason Amador Valley has doubled its 2022 win total after just 13 games, the 12th win coming Wednesday as de la Torre pitched six strong innings in a 7-1 victory on the road over sixth-ranked Dublin in East Bay Athletic League play.Amador Valley gave its pitcher all the runs he’d need in the thir...